Is it essential to photograph the preparations of a wedding ?
Yes, and no.
If you want my opinion, I’d say yes—it’s an integral part of the day, a moment rich in emotion, the first of the day, and a lot can already happen during the preparations…
But to be completely honest, it’s not necessarily essential if you don’t place much importance on it. I’ve photographed weddings starting with the ceremony before, without being present during the preparations, because in the end, nothing special was planned for the preparations! And that happens too.
If you don’t place much importance on having your hair done by someone (whether it’s one of your guests or a professional), the same goes for makeup, if you’re going to get dressed quickly and/or simply, if you haven’t arranged to meet your loved ones beforehand… Well, there’s no need to take photos at that moment. Or maybe you want something very intimate that isn’t photographed. And that’s perfectly valid too. Don’t forget: it’s your wedding, your wishes, and your choices. No vendor can force you to do anything.
Nevertheless, I can show you just how great it is to have photos of the preparations.
Having your loved ones by your side
You can invite your family or close friends over to get ready with you: music, breakfast, and maybe even some bubbly! You can also hire a professional to do hair and makeup for several people. You can organize a brunch. You can organize a photo shoot with friends: I usually take photos of what’s happening in a discreet, candid way to capture the best and most authentic moments, but I also love organizing mini group photo sessions! And then we can really let loose and do things that are a little less traditional.
Do a small photoshoot
Here are some examples of group pictures less traditionnal that we can do in the morning of preparations:
prepare elements and accessories for flatlays
I always ask couples who hire me for their wedding preparations to set aside important items from their wedding, such as invitations, wedding rings, flowers… accessories like jewelry, watches, shoes… or even objects or items that are meaningful to them and/or represent who they are. With all these items, I can take detailed photos and “flatlays” to capture memories of these objects, highlight them, and add context and creativity to your wedding photo gallery.
do a "first look" with your partner
Once you’re ready, you can have your first look and see each other in your outfits for the first time before the ceremony—either alone or in front of your loved ones who are there. It’s sure to be an emotional moment!
one last piece of advice: take your time!
Getting ready in an hour is a race against the clock. I’d say that two hours (at least) is better if you want to enjoy yourself, have some company, and avoid getting too stressed out. Take your time, savor these moments because the day goes by very quickly, and above all, don’t forget to eat!
